With the commercialization of Valentine’s Day those who are single and without a Valentine often dread the day. There are so many way to celebrate Valentine’s Day when you do not have a partner. Should your objective be to be coupled perhaps by the next Valentine’s Day, there are definite steps that you can take to bring about change in your life.
Transitioning from a partnership to being single certainly can have its challenges. Holidays often lead to non coupled individuals feeling left out and waiting for the day to end. Valentine’s Day can be celebrated beautifully should you not have a partner.
The first step would be having a positive, upbeat attitude and embrace the day. Ensure that you love and respect yourself. If you truly can’t say that you do, you are not yet ready for a healthy relationship. Connecting with a great counselor would be the best gift you could give to yourself if you find yourself in that situation.
Challenge yourself to make February, 14, 2017 the day that you bring joy into the hearts of others. Buy a huge package of Valentine cards and pass them out at a local nursing home. The smiles on the faces of those who you give the cards to will likely warm your heart for weeks. Hand out flowers to random people. Check with hospitals and see if you may distribute Valentine cards to patients. There is no doubt that deployed soldiers would love the opportunity to receive Valentine’s cards with a message of gratitude. Consult with D.N.D. and determine how far in advance you would need to drop off the cards so that they can be sent to troops. Our Legions often have War Veterans who would likely appreciate being recognized. If you are fond of pets, cuddle with dogs or cats at a pet rescue shelter or The S.P.C.A. often allows people to cuddle and play with the puppies and kittens as well as their full grown animals.
Changing up your typical routine will potentially lead you to situations where you are meeting new people. The more new people you meet, the greater the chances of meeting one you develop a connection with.
Entrusting your heart to a wonderful and experienced Matchmaker will usually lead you to a phenomenal love connection where the tow of you can carry on your tradition of making people feel special on a day where they may normally feel left out.
Every day is Valentine’s Day when you are a Matchmaker!
Have a wonderful Valentine’s Day.