Advice

As matchmakers with over 23 years of experience, we are often asked for guidance. Often the questions that are asked are ones that relate to many people who are searching for love.

Who Do These Guys Think They Are???

Dear Lianne, I’m a early sixties woman who is financially set. I am wanting to meet someone. I have a great, full life and am wondering if I intimidate men. I’m fit, stylish and have a heart of gold. I travel, golf and have great friends. Upon the urging of my friends...

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Beware of Wanna-Be Matchmakers

 Dear Readers, I have been a very successful matchmaker for the past twenty three years. When people learn what I do for my career their first reaction is “That must be so much fun!”  They are often taken aback when I explain that I love what I do, it is so...

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You’re NEVER Too Old To Fall In Love

Dear Lianne, My wife died last June. She was everything to me. We were together for 53 years. She took sick and lived less than six weeks. She made me promise I would look for someone else. To tell you the truth I wish I could have gone with her.  This life alone is...

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Three’s A Crowd

Dear Lianne, I met a woman I thought was great.  We met up a few times and then she told me that ex-husband lives in her basement. They have decided to do that for financial reasons and so their child has both parents with him. It took me by surprise and I didn't know...

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Being In Love Has Great Health Benefits

Dear Lianne, I had a great marriage and my husband passed away 3 years ago. I'm 57 now, active, fit healthy and financially secure. I am lonely and people are starting to ask me when I'm going to move on and start dating. I was married to my high school sweetheart. I...

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Rejection is No Laughing Matter

Dear Lianne, So I went out for lunch with this guy from online.  It lasted 3 and a half hours.  We hit it off. Had the best time. He was really into me. Was so happy he met me.The waitress did not believe it was our first date!. That night I was performing stand up...

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Why am I Attracted to Narcissists?

Dear Lianne, It happened again. I met the most charming man. He seemed like everything I ever was looking for. He was attentive , charismatic, and every girl's dream. All of a sudden my Mr. Wonderful has turned into someone that I don't even know. He used to...

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What Do You Do Without a Valentine?

With the commercialization of Valentine's Day those who are single and without a Valentine often dread the day. There are so many way to celebrate Valentine's Day when you do not have a partner. Should your objective be to be coupled perhaps by the next Valentine's...

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What Do You Expect Online?

Dear Lianne, I'm embarrassed to write this but I would NEVER dare tell anyone. I went online and weeded through many profiles. I found one I really liked and we started talking. I was excited about the possibilities. He seemed amazing. We FaceTimed because he thought...

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What To Do If You Are Frightened

Dear Lianne, While I do appreciate the match you have presented to me, I have some concerns. John and I had a lovely first telephone conversation, though I am starting to have some doubts. I am happy in my life. My new granddaughter is the love of my life. I enjoy my...

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